Bratty Submissives
Everything you need to know about being one, and being with one
This week I share with you how to navigate D/s dynamics as a Brat.
‘Brat’ is a role within BDSM that you might come across during your power play journey. Instead of being obedient and compliant like typical service Subs, brats love to test their Doms’ patience by misbehaving and bending the rules. Some brats can be Doms and Switches, but you’re most likely to come across bratty Submissives and the brat tamers that keep them in check. Because Doms have to work harder to earn their trust, it can take a while to demystify how brats think and behave – but the result can be hugely rewarding.
Why do brats love being brats? How to know if you’re a brat? Let me share ways to build healthy brattiness vs topping from the bottom. Read on to learn more and explore the blog page to find more insightful posts about BDSM topics and areas of interest.
Upcoming events…
Cocktails & Kink - Kinkmas
Tuesday 17th December
It’s the most wonderful time of the year so why not join us for a Sub in the City Cocktail & Kink: Christmas Edition!
This kinky social will be full of Christmas spirit, festive cocktails and the best Christmas tunes.
Impact Skills & Festive Social
Wednesday 18th December
Step into the festive season with a jolly good spanking in this practical impact play class! Join us in the dungeon this Christmas for this partnered impact play workshop.
La Casa del Kink - Conscious Kink Retreat
April 2025
In April 2025 we’re inviting you to step into our conscious kink retreat, La Casa del Kink. Join Sub in the City for the ultimate weekend of conscious kink, where we’re extending an invitation to curious kinksters who wish to consciously explore what BDSM & Kink means to them.
Open to individuals, couples and other constellations:) Spaces are limited and will available by application only. So if you fancy registering for more details then click on the link below for more information.