Bratting Vs Topping From The Bottom
New podcast episode for you
Do you identify as a BRAT?
Do you love to test your Dom and take control?
Or do you wish you could surrender more?
In this week's podcast episode, I break down the difference between bratting and ‘topping from the bottom’ as well as give all submissives some top tips on the ways to ask your Dom for what you want without it taking away from your submissive experience.
I break down some of the behaviours that you might notice when topping from the bottom, ask you some important questions to get clear on your intentions, and give a little reminder about how to co-create a power dynamic that works for ALL involved.
Catch the full podcast episode up on Spotify.
And if you feel as though you’ve been topping from the bottom and some of the reasons why that might be happening resonate with you, then I can support you with this. As a Kinky Coach and therapist, I can draw on my knowledge, personal experience and counselling skills to help you identify limiting beliefs, programmed conditioning and certain core beliefs that could be holding you back on your submissive journey.
DM, comment or email me with the words “topping from the bottom” and I’ll send you more information on ways we can work together for personalised kinky guidance.
Happy Sunday and I'll catch you next week.
Much love,
Sarah xx
Let me know how you get on, and if you have any questions, my DMs and inbox are always open.
If you’d like to stay accountable for taking these first steps into the world of kink, screenshot this episode, tag @subinthecity and share it on your stories with your biggest takeaway from this episode!
COCKTAILS & KINK: SUMMER SOCIAL - THURSDAY 8TH AUGUST
Join Sub in the City for a kinky Summer Social where we’ll be mingling over cocktails and sexy beats from 8pm. This is the perfect place to connect with like minded kinky people whether you’re single or in a relationship, and enjoy an evening of connected conversation.
This kink-positive event, with some surprise sexy performances throughout the evening, will give you the perfect opportunity to mix, mingle and chat with the local kink community, and even have your kinky questions answered by Kink Educator, Sarah.
We’ll have a DJ playing all evening, decadent cocktails and some other saucy surprises TBC.
Where and when: The Looking Glass Cocktail Club, Shoreditch, 8pm-2am
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