Hi beautiful Kinksters,
This week I’m talking to you all about Femdom.
Femdom, or female dominance, is all about women and femmes taking the lead in a BDSM power dynamic. Though there’s many different ways to practice a Femdom dynamic, play mostly revolves around harnessing feminine energy to assert dominance, or exploring the masculinity associated with domination to affirm a Dominant role. There’s lots to explore within Femdom, meaning every dynamic can be constructed in a unique and personal way.
It’s vital that we challenge the narrow and normative ideas about Femdom that are portrayed in mainstream media and porn. First off, anyone who aligns themselves with femininity, including cis and trans women, can be Dominants in a femdom dynamic, and many non-binary people find this label empowering too.
In my latest blog post, you’ll find the different roles and dynamics associated to femdom as well as scenes/play to try out and ways to explore Femdom in your own way.
Head to Sub in the City to learn more and make your very own special contract that suits your needs.
Bye for now
Sarah x
Join us for our upcoming events…
BDSM Scene Building & Social - Thursday 12th September at 7pm
Do you want the inspiration and confidence to create exciting kinky BDSM scenes at home? This is your opportunity to take your BDSM play to the next level and do so with a group of like-minded people, followed by a social until late for you to connect over kinky conversation.
Where and when: 7pm - Midnight, Venue N1 (TBC)
Halloween Cocktails and Kink - Blood Lust
Wednesday 30th October
Join Sub in the City for a deliciously decadent halloween party, where the underworld come together to celebrate their blood lust! This kinky social is a space for the kink community to meet and connect with likeminded people over cocktails and great music and performances.
Where and when: 8pm - 2am, The Looking Glass Cocktail Club, E2 7NX
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