A Guide to Chastity

Tips for using chastity devices in BDSM dynamics

Oct 06, 2024

Chastity: the act of restricting some or all kinds of sexual pleasure, involves intense denial, control and perseverance.

By wearing a chastity cage or belt, Submissives are forced to abstain from sex for the duration of a scene or in a long term commitment. Within a BDSM power dynamic, chastity can be a test of the Submissive’s dedication to their Dominant as well as a Dominant’s method to control or deny their partner’s orgasms. If chastity is broken without good reason, it’s usually up to the Dom or keyholder to decide what happens next.

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Outside of a dynamic, people may use chastity devices as a way to master their self-discipline, increase the emotional and physical pleasure that’s achieved from orgasming after abstaining, or to focus on other areas of their body other than their genitals.

Read the full article as I guide you through answering: why people are into chastity, types of chastity devices, self-caging, safety, hygiene and physical effects, and how you can be in chastity without a chastity device.

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A guide to chastity